you can be a heart advocate

I want to be your safe-space. In 2015, I decided to no longer settle in my relationships and to choose myself, and now I am here for your heart.

By facing your fears, self-doubt, insecurity, shame and guilt + blame with the 10 Branches of Self-love (Path of Self-love), I believe that everyone can intentionally create a life filled with acceptance of self, joy, and inner-peace.

As the Heart Advocate, I provide virtual Heart Advocate Programs, Self-love Therapy, Self-love workshops and run a support group on Facebook, Healing Over Everything™.

I want to help you choose self-love as a coping skill for mental health and healing because we are all healing over something (PTSD, anxiety, toxic relationships, loneliness, trauma, fear, depression, self-doubt, insecurity, etc.).

I am dedicated to taking self-love with me everywhere I go, so if I am present, you are in a judgement free zone and safe space. All of my services are accessible to human beings no matter the gender, race, ethnicity, culture, socioeconomic status, religion, age, or disability; you are welcome here.

You deserve to never settle for less. -Ta’lor L. Pinkston, The Heart Advocate

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What is a Heart Advocate

We all have personal + professional desires and our relationship with others and ourselves impacts the moves we make. Often times, we ignore the desires of our hearts for fear of disappointing others, a lack of self-worth, or doubting our abilities. As The Heart Advocate™ I am dedicated to helping every woman + femme (transgender women, non-binary, non-gender femme/queer) defy fear, self-doubt, insecurity, shame/blame, and guilt by advocating for their heart + souls desire.

There are 3 things that make you a Heart Advocate:

  1. Never settling for less than you desire personally or professionally
  2. Manifesting + Maintaining only loving and respectful relationships in your life
  3. Doing what you desire even if that means disappointing others (adapted from the Path of Self-love

Our Heart Advocate™ programs + self-love therapy, groups, and workshops provide an array of resources on self-love, mental health, and healing. We want to help you listen to your heart and do exactly what you desire every day.


No Bullshit Self-love program + workshop – seeks to help women + femme to never settle for less than they desire, address their own bullshit, and to know their worth by focusing on the 10 branches of self-love (provided by the Path of Self-love). The Heart Advocate will guide you in becoming your own Heart Advocate and make the active choice to commit to what your heart and soul desires.

Guides + Heart Tools – various guides, templates, and journal entries to help you begin to apply self-love into your lifestyle and accept yourself as you journey closer to falling in love with yourself as you are.

Photo Credit: Marien Jose [Pittsburgh, PA]

Mental health + Healing Over Everything™

Love Pause: Self-love Therapy – when you need a moment to pause, feel, and do the Heart Work. The Heart Advocate will hold space for you to help you release stress, toxicity, insecurity, restlessness, fear, worry, and self-doubt using self-love as a coping skill for mental health concerns and healing.

Healing Over Everything™ (H.O.E) – a virtual support group that focuses on self-love, mental health, and healing. Weekly support and discussions on healthy relationships, motherhood, marriage, and single-life, self-care, self-worth, body-acceptance, and mental health.
Scroll down for more information on H.O.E.

#nomakeupmondays – Every Monday with The Heart Advocate and in Healing Over Everything we share our makeup free selfies. This challenge was created to support women + femme with self-acceptance and body-acceptance and defy this standard of beauty.

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No Bullshit Self-love Program

Who desires to ditch the bullshit and prioritize their body acceptance, happiness, mental health and inner peace by facing their fears, self-doubt, insecurity, and shame in relationships + mental health? Did you say “Me“?


Captured by: Julie Kahlbaugh (Pittsburgh, PA)

No Bullshit Self-love helps women to open the door to Healing Over Everything™ by providing the Heart Tools to become their own Heart Advocate™. The program will give you the opportunity to choose your worth every day, help you prioritize the 10 branches of self-love (provided by the Path of Self-love), and show you how YOU CAN make the active choice to commit to your heart and soul desires.

self-love: a path. a practice. a choice. christine arylo, the path of self-love

You will be provided with support as we navigate through each branch of self-love. Self-love is not selfish, it is a requirement in wellness + mental health. By making our heart and soul desires priority you will change what you allow in relationships, how you parent, how you communicate in relationships, how you see your mental health, and your health + wellness.

You can break down the walls of fear, self-doubt, self-hate, and insecurity with the 10 branches of self-love, including self-awareness, self-care, self-trust, self-acceptance, and self-forgiveness and I want to connect with you.

Self-love is something that we choose every damn day and you are worthy.

What to Expect 

There are a total of 12 sessions for the No Bullshit Self-love program. Each session focuses on one of the 10 branches of Self-love (Path of Self-love) and provides you will bullshit free self-love Heart Tools, assigns Heart Work, and gives you the space to get uncomfortable by choosing your heart personally + professionally.

Each session is available through video conferencing on Zoom for 1 hour. Sessions can be booked weekly or with a $50 savings when you sign up for the full program.

how to begin

click the button below.

become a heart advocate

To learn more  about me please visit the About page and if you have any questions or concerns, click the Contact page or email me 

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Healing Over Everything (H.O.E.)

About h.o.e.

Healing Over Everything is a support group on Facebook that provides individuals with weekly discussions on different topics related to self-love, mental health and healing. We are conversation starters who want to face our pain, celebrate ourselves, and have a safe-space to vent and be transparent about what we are struggling with.

Social media is the stumping ground for comparison, perfectionism, and toxic self-hate, so I developed this group to provide you with a safe-space. If you don’t truly love yourself, flaws and all, you will constantly attract unhealthy relationships, and that includes social networks like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. H.O.E. supports women by providing self-love tips, focusing on Healing Over Everything™, and empowering them to be advocates for their hearts.

We are defying perfectionism, self-hate, and the word “HO” every single day. 

This group has grown from a support for women when I realized that no matter the status of a woman; her socioeconomic status, age, race + ethnicity, culture, religion, sexual preference, sexual orientation, or sexual identity we have all been called a ‘ho.’ and are healing over something … and now it is a community for anyone who is not hyper masculine or a bigot.

We are defying the word to mean Healing Over Everything™ and using it to empower, challenge, and support individuals of difference all over the world.

WHo can join H.O.E.?

You may be wondering, how did I allow myself to stay in this toxic relationship for so long? Why am I still struggling to love my body? Why do I let people walk all over me? How will I ever have healthy relationships in my life? Is there something wrong with me? We have all asked some version of these questions in our journey and the answer is a lack of self-love. Don’t beat yourself up, the reality is we are taught how to take care of others, not necessarily how to take care of ourselves.

If you are struggling with maintaining healthy relationships, have concerns with family + friends, struggling in your marriage or as a parent; if you need support with grief or loss, during  or after a divorce or a bad breakup; if you are struggling with accepting your body or trusting your heart in making decisions, I am here to say that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

this group is here for your heart.

H.O.E. is for individuals ages 18+ who are high school seniors, college kids, cisgender or transgender, married or single, and parents who wants to heal over the choices of their past. Woe are so powerful when we are united and H.O.E. is dedicated to providing a safe-space for you to heal and help others heal from toxic relationships, trauma, abuse, loneliness, divorce and our every day life experiences living in a male dominated society filled with bigotry, perfectionism, and status. 

How to Join H.O.E.?

With over 1,300+ members, H.O.E. is making its mark as a group that is “the only reason I am on Facebook.” – Gloria Madelyn (member since 2018).

If you would like to join this amazing group of individuals from all over the world, click the button below: 

Healing Over Everything­™

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